{"id":14112,"date":"2022-11-07T05:45:00","date_gmt":"2022-11-07T11:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/theamericangenius.com\/housing\/?p=14112"},"modified":"2022-11-08T08:59:16","modified_gmt":"2022-11-08T14:59:16","slug":"money-does-not-equal-happiness-for-the-wealthhy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theamericangenius.com\/housing\/editorials\/money-does-not-equal-happiness-for-the-wealthhy\/","title":{"rendered":"Money \u2260 happiness: Why the wealthy feel the most empty of us all"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The wealthy elite are miserable at work, or so the New York Times alleges in \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/interactive\/2019\/02\/21\/magazine\/elite-professionals-jobs-happiness.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Future of Work: Wealthy, Successful, and Miserable<\/a>.\u201d My knee-jerk reaction was \u201cboo hoo\u201d &#8211; Of course, you\u2019ll be miserable if you only work for yourself, a lesson that should have been easily learned and fixed in your 20s.<\/p>\n<p>The NYT&#8217;s example was a wealthy investment banker who earned 1.2 million. It\u2019s extremely hard to find pity for someone who earned that much in a thankless job. And the article was less about the future of work and more about how to find job satisfaction. However, everyone should understand that <em>in order to be happy in a job, you must do something that fulfills you<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Fulfillment comes in a variety of forms. It is fulfilling to help others while working with colleagues you respect.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes the job description itself doesn\u2019t lead to fulfillment but the way you work does. For example, I worked for two years as a personal injury paralegal helping car accident victims. If that doesn\u2019t make you cringe, this will: I managed well over 100 cases, a very demanding caseload, and was also the Office Manager. Tragedy literally walked into the door and called every day. I adored the job \u2013 it was hands down the best I\u2019d ever had. Why? It was intense, varied, and immensely fulfilling because <strong>I made a difference every day<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>I helped people get their life back and fought against big insurance companies who were screwing people out of their deserved recovery. As a victim of a no-fault car accident myself four years ago, I was on a crusade and loved it.<\/p>\n<p>The reasons I left were a complicated mix of work\/life balance issues, but primarily because my husband became deathly ill unexpectedly and I chose him and his life over the job I loved. And I don\u2019t regret it &#8211; although I still miss that job that had changed my life for the better (despite being underpaid).<\/p>\n<p>In addition to doing something I believed in, part of what made the job great was autonomy, something the NYT article alludes to.<\/p>\n<p>Autonomy to do the job the way you see fit is a precious thing. But it\u2019s also about finding purpose within yourself to do the job.<\/p>\n<p>I was able to bring a sense of purpose to the job description, something everyone should be doing. It\u2019s more about finding your \u201cwhy,\u201d your reason for being there every day.<\/p>\n<p>And your &#8220;why&#8221; must be about more than earning a paycheck. No matter how large it is.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A high salary can be an exciting perk but records show the wealthy truly aren&#8217;t happy. 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