Tuesday, December 23, 2025

Give Me What I Want!

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Buying a New Home 

Last month we sold our home; today, we move into a new home. The process has provided a lesson in what my clients go through and I believe we should all sell and buy our personal homes occasionally to step into our clients shoes. I have moved twice since I became a REALTOR®. Both times were to another state and this will be my last move. I think!

My Requirements 

We only have one child left at home, so we are downsizing. I knew exactly what I wanted in a home. It had to be ready to move in to. I don’t want to paint, change flooring, remodel the kitchen or the bathrooms. I don’t want to landscape, I want three bedrooms, an office, a large kitchen, a fireplace, three car garage and tree lined yard. I don’t want to look at my neighbor’s backyard.

Oh, and all on one level! Now, aren’t you glad you are NOT representing me?

What REALTORS® Thought

We did find the perfect home for us, with everything we want. Once I started talking to other REALTORS®, though, they all tried to sell me a home THEY have listed. Okay, I applaud them for doing their best for their seller, but they did not listen to me. No, I don’t want to make the living room an office. Yes, I need three bedrooms and an office. NO, I don’t want a two story. There may be a pond in the backyard, but there are no trees. A two car garage will not work. Are you sure you want to live in Indianapolis? YES!

A Lesson Learned

I wonder how often this happens? Do we try to make a home fit the needs of our client instead of finding a home which does fit the needs of our clients? Do we take time to really listen and hear what they are saying? Like my clients, I am buying a lifestyle. A lifestyle which works for me. I’m sure my associate’s and peers don’t actually recommend homes to their clients in the same manner; still, the lesson is one I will not forget.

Paula Henry
Paula Henryhttps://hometoindy.com
Paula is team leader for The "Home to Indy" Team in Indianapolis . She is passionate about education and client care and believes an empowered client is better prepared to make good decisions for themselves. You'll find her online at Agent Genius,Twitter and sharing her insights about her local real estate market at Home To Indy.

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