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13 things Loan Officers wish the agents they work with would consider, understand, do or NOT do.

Like marketing & sales, sometimes the relationships between agents and Loan Officers can be love & hate.  From an ecosystem perspective, they are essential to one another, yet there can be tension.

I chatted with some LO’s I know to get their top “I wish” list items.  They have an average of 16 years in the business, none with less than 12, so I think we can consider them experienced.  (Note: these are California based Loan Officers, so the loan process or relationship could differ based on where you live.)

Interestingly, a number of the comments revolved around communication.  I once had a boss that told me “it’s only effective communication if the other person understands it the way you intended”.  Very true.  And, communication is two-way, so it probably pays to clarify.

I wish the agent …

… understood calling me several times a day for status updates doesn’t actually speed things up.

… would NOT quote rates or recommend program types without speaking to me first.  If they get it wrong it’s an awkward start to a relationship with their client.

… knew that when I go back to the client time after time for additional paperwork to meet conditions, it’s the Lender asking time after time (and often at the 11th hour) … I have my stuff together!

… would tell me at the beginning of the transaction how best to communicate with them.  For example, do you want daily/weekly updates, or an update every time some event happens?  Each of your needs are different.  I’m not clairvoyant.  Tell me, please!

… believed I am just as committed to getting his/her deal closed to meet contract deadlines as they are.  I need to make a living too!!!

… knew I don’t blame them for not believing loan officers anymore.  The bad ones are gone now.  Don’t make me pay for their mistakes.

… would take into account that I am human, therefore fallible.  We all make a mistake now and again, and we all work to fix it.  Don’t burn a bridge with me for being human.

… considered us partners.  Our relationship is symbiotic …

… would be clear about what “a reasonable time to return calls” means to them.  It seems to differ depending on the subject matter.  Please let me know up front.

… believed the rate IS the rate.  I have given your client a GFE and have no intention of screwing them.

… would tell me if the client is shopping the loan.  Nothing would change from what I quote or the level of service, but it’s hard to put so many hours into a deal, only to have the rug pulled out from under me at the 11th hour.  You’d think a realtor would understand that!

… wouldn’t withhold information – especially regarding the property –  that could jeopardize the deal.  I mean, if there’s no sink or toilet, please tell me!

… understood I don’t have ANY control over the appraisal.  I can’t schedule it, change it or influence it.

I hope you’ll consider this view from the other side of the fence helpful.  Please weigh in below with anything you’d want Loan Officers to know.

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Brandie Young
Brandie Younghttps://brandieyoung.wordpress.com
Brandie is an unapologetically candid marketing professional who was recently mentioned on BusinessWeek as a Top Young Female Entrepreneur. She recently co-founded consulting firm MarketingTBD. She's held senior level positions with GE and Fidelity, as well as with entrepreneurial start-ups. Raised by a real estate Broker, Brandie is passionate about real estate and is an avid investor. Follow her on Twitter.

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